I don't understand... You added marcoaslak to your friends list. That guy went inactive a year and five months before you even joined. You haven't interacted with him at all, and you added him as a friend? He went inactive before the switch to IP Board, so his default settings were not set to allow him to approve friends before they're added, so you can't even be sure he wants to be friends. Was there something about his posts that you liked? I've never been a huge fan of having someone on your friends list that you haven't interacted with much. That's why I only sent friend requests to people whom I had interacted with an liked, waited before accepting Kanpachi's friend request, am still deciding before accepting darkmagic64, and never accepted Lord Shadow's friend request.