Bombchu, it's not that we don't like that you're different from us. We're not upset that you think differently than us, disagree with us, and were brought up differently than us. We're reacting this way because your lifestyle enforces a lot of ideas that have been proven to not work out in reality, and we're sad that your parents have basically brainwashed you into thinking there is no other way. Not that your parents are bad people, because after all, they grew up the same way you did. But you're different, because you have access to many, many times more information than they did (or do now, since they're computer-illiterate). You can go on the internet and learn about so many different kinds of people, lifestyles, cultures, religions, and philosophies. It's greatly enlightening and objectively good for you as a person. Don't let anybody tell you that learning is bad, regardless of the subject matter. Well, ok, you're 16, so don't go learning about guro sites, but you know what I mean.
I'll phrase this as a question, since that's the point of the thread: can you tell me why we'd have such a forceful reaction to your beliefs? Can you see it from our point of view?