I'm okay with backseat moderation being a bannable offence because it shows that the person does not think that the moderation team is not doing their job (even though they are), and is highly disrespectful, etc etc etc
Erm, not quite what I meant ._. I was suggesting that if that
were the case someone say so so that we know that there's something we actually need to improve.
So why don't we clear up exactly what backseat moderation is, because telling someone not to double post after they double post instead of waiting for the mods to rap their knuckles seems reasonable to me.
Why? Then there are two pointless posts lying around instead of one (in the case that the post doesn't say anything else). It's like responding to a necropost. This is what I'm talking about - is having to wait a few hours at most for a staff member to perform a 10-second post merge that's going to happen anyway inadequate?
Unless you mods want to nanny everyone who makes a stupid mistake, I think input from regular members on how to behave on our forums is useful for new members.
Admonishing every new user that slips up is not "useful input", and I am telling you this as one of the guys whose job it is to deem what qualifies as such.
I've never been to a forum where admonishing new users to help teach them the rules before moderators got involved is disallowed.
Your forum experience could be a lot better then broski
What advantage is there to making it an offense? It seems to me that you're just giving our moderators more useless work.
This forum doesn't get enough traffic to be too much work even if I had to do it all on my own. It's a luxury we can afford here.
As long as the moderators would be giving the user a warning in the first place, why can't they be spared the trouble by another user?
Because if you say anything that isn't correct, or are a prick about it, it creates twice as much work for me. I can't then properly fault them for their behaviour because they've been fed misinformation,
and I have somebody else's poor behaviour to deal with as well. Even if it is correct, new users are under no obligation to do what other users tell them, and I'm under no obligation to make them do so (barring cases like somebody requesting in their own thread that an argument stop).
Having said that, it wouldn't really be a problem if they (you) always got it right, or more precisely, had been getting it right, which is why there is one. You haven't been, and if there is one thing that utterly goads me it is somebody professing to speak for someone else and then doing so falsely. I think it's fairer and easier for everyone to say "don't try to go behind the moderators' back, they can do their job on their own" than "you can tell other users what to do if you want, but don't ever be wrong or otherwise I will crush your balls over it". It's just one of those things that I feel very strongly about

I personally believe it makes any human feel better to be advised by peers before superiors, I was always a little scared of all the admins on each forum I joined.
It encourages them to abide by rules on their own accord because other users appreciate it, as opposed to making them scared for what happens when the rules aren't followed because the moderators will take action.
Admins can be intimidating (insofar as I could intimidate a dunnart), but If the staff are bad a site isn't worth bothering with period. In my case, upon entering a new community, I find it far more painful to have to deal with the same cadre of horridly possessive little toerags that in fact often have the least to offer their community in terms of creativity or personal input. This site has had serious issues with such users in the past, and I have to say that at the moment the staff are being an awful lot nicer to new users than you guys are.
Will get to specifics next, so again I'll invite anyone who has anything about the rules they'd like to suggest to do so, otherwise I'll be running solely off memory and searches of my own posts